Cellular Respiration Chlamydia

THE SEVEN HABITS

7 Many people have these bad habits without realizing it. And do not help us in our relationship with ourselves and with Other:

1. Punishing

2. Complain

3. Blaming

4. Threatening

5.

pursue

6.

criticize

7.

bribe

These habits lead to most of their emotional problems are directly linked to the fact that you have learned to try to control people around him. We learn these habits in our children's teachers, parents, grandparents and others.

EXAMPLE:

Clean your room, if not, no TV for you tonight (punishment). These cookies will be prepared for you when everything is clean and tidy. (Bribery). After years exposed to this form of manipulation, finally begins to use it too. Probably clean the room, but will not be a good relationship.

The practical problem of trying to control others is that every time you meet, bribe, complain, criticize, punish or threaten someone, meet resistance, they will respond, they will fight, in fact ignored, lie, do things in secret and attend to a million ways to get you back. It's just human nature. We are genetically programmed to resist when someone tries to force us to do something you do not want.

may be more pronounced in one person than another, but unless you recognize what you are doing and learn how to find what you want in a relationship without trying to control others, all relationships become a struggle for power that cause suffering to all involved.

VERSUS ... LOVE THE 7 HABITS OF HAPPY PEOPLE REALLY The best way to eliminate negative habits is to replace 7 with the 7 habits of love:

1. Support

2.

stimulate

3. Play

4. OK

5. Trust

6. Respect

7.

negotiate

differences. It seems easy, because the only thing one needs to do is accept people as it is. But like so many valuable things in life, love habits are harder to implement than one might imagine, especially if they represent the personality that you have formed.

Some aspects that can help: Become a realistic analysis:

7 Do you have the negative habits? How are you this morning spoke to the people with whom you live? Are encouraged to do what they had planned for the day? How can we act? Tip: Treat people as if they were his best friends. Listen to each word, find the time to sit down with people and really pay attention without being distracted by cell phones or the demands of others.

Visualize your new self: Make a mental image of you as a person practicing the 7 Habits of love. Keep it in mind and refer to it when talking with their loved ones, to see whether it is acting as a person who knows how to love.

Make the right question:

The moment it arises the need to blame, complain, criticize, insist, threaten, punish or bribe, before you say anything, stop and ask yourself is this really important? Accept the reality: One must understand that the only person who can change is yourself. When you have a dispute with a person who is important in your life, business.

Choose model:

are the people to which they most admire, ask them before they would react with one of the 7 bad habits. Write about your experiences: Keep a diary, which will help you through the transition and see their progress.

vs NEGATIVE THE 7 HABITS. 7 HABITS OF LOVE TURN:

Blame - Accepting Bribe

- Stimulate

Complaining - Play Criticize

- Respect

Pursue - Resolve differences

Punish - Support

Threats - to Trust Marinaz soon